but when he comes to? spend the night he sleeps on the sofa, unless he wants ***. How should that make me feel?

Tell him to cut the Crap, if wants to leave then go, but if he's gonna stay then get it together and you dont need that BS right now!!!

uh you tell us how that makes you feel, we dont know what your feeling. personally I would feel hurt that he sleeps on the couch instead of in my bed with me. But thats just me.

that hes useing you for ***

and why he sleeps on the sofa?Have u talk about it with him?Don't feel sad.Just ask him